During the last game the whole party got defeated. Mostly killed, the rest captured, one of them sent back naked (in the snow) to ask for ransom.
The long story is that the party managed to get from the local Assembly of Barons the right to refurbish and garrison Rodemus Keep (yeah, Rodemus Keep from Moldway) for a year (renewable in perpetuity), in exchange for the right to taxing the trade route to the Eastern Kingdom (route that should be protected by the keep, which at the moment is obviously unsafe).
But it’s winter and the keep is up in the mountains, over a mountain pass. They’ve been there already but failed to completely make it safe. Random tables tell me that a band of hobgoblins moved in and stroke a deal with the remaining Rodemuses.
What happens is that they go in commando style and kick a good quantity of ‘bear asses. Next session 3 players don’t show up and the remaining two decide to push in with their retainers. That means the following forces got in:
- Player 1: elven thief LVL 3 accompained by:
- cleric LVL 1
- halfling fighter, LVL 1
- Player 2: fighting man LVL 1 accompained by:
- two thieves, LVL 1
- an elven mage, LVL 1
- a cleric, LVL 1
Went in a keep where they know bugbears live, without trying to get any scouting or tactical advantage: just go in, kill them, get treasure, get out.
Somehow they managed to survive to the first encounter slaying 3 + 3 ‘bears (reinforcements arrived), and fell back. Then they moved in again and got wiped out by 7 other ‘bears: this time the defenders were prepared and the PCs, despite almost . Just the two PCs and a cleric survived (at -1 hp or so, I let PCs die at minus something, usually -5, unless the final blow has been massive, such as a boulder tossed by a giant or a dragon bite, for which going to 0 is enough).
The usual feedback via email followed, where it emerged (to sum it up) that they would rather have their characters die than escape because they think that fighting smart or retreating is dishonorable. This is from a thief and a warrior that has no problems sending his henchmen dying. Adding on top that since characters die so easily, they would rather play as they please and die. This is contradicted by the fact that somehow one of them (and other players as well) managed to keep PCs alive till level 5. Adding that it’s my fault because I don’t scale encounters.
Ok, I admit this made me a bit bitter, but enough with the ranting now. When we started I expressly told them what kind of campaign I was about to run and what kind of play I expected from them. I started doubting that running this kind of game for these two players was not worth the time and effort (both mine and theirs) if they weren’t having fun and I told them so (adding that I’m not interested in running non-sandbox games). But, they say, games are still fun, so they’d rather play, and nobody asked me to scale encounter or to pull punches.
At times I wonder if the right choices have been done. Possibly the kind of game is wrong for the players, or I can’t handle it as a DM, or simply they’re looking for something else but we keep on playing together because we’ve been friends for more than 10 years (on top of that we’re all related to another member of the group) and playing is what we do together.
The Way to Play, for me, is not about Doing Things the Right Way. The Way to Play, for me, is to fail better, less often, less painfully. To have more fun, more intensity, get more out of playing. Accepting failure as a gamer, as a DM, as a friend. Accepting that the means used at times won’t work. Accepting as well that people change and, if RPGs don’t cut it for everyone anymore, it’s time to stop with them and start pursuing other pastimes, or to find different people to play with.